What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I once had an issue with porn does this mean I can never watch it again? 

We are on a roll for all-time fangirl moments! In this episode we interview podcast icon Dan Savage of the Savage LoveCast! We learn all about the changes in the field of human sexuality Dan has witnessed as a sex columnist since the 90’s (and podcaster since 2006), as well as his thoughts on the ever-shifting language around sex, gender and orientation. We also explore various terms in his latest book Savage Love From A to Z including DTMFA, Fuck First, GGG, Monogamish, secret perving, and why Dan's top sex and relationship advice is to ask your partner “What are you into?”.

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex.

Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube.

What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot o important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom?

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn’t seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy owner) am not. Can I learn to have multiple orgasms the same way they can? 

In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies.

In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self.

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom?

What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have sex on the first date? And what do I do if I meet someone I want to dive deeper with? How and when should I share this with them, and how can I manage my fear or feelings of rejection?

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and lead to better sex?

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when shit hits the fan and the relationship feels like a mess? What can couples do when things go awry? 

What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do?

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up?

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms?

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T?

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more.

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex?

It’s Anal August! So let’s get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate?

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences?