What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do?

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up?

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms?

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T?

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more.

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex?

It’s Anal August! So let’s get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate?

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences?

How can I heal from a breakup or divorce without the breakup breaking me? What of my ex quickly moves on to some else? What is a "toxic relationship", and what are the signs someone might be in one? Why do so many people find themselves in toxic relationships? What if I know my relationship is not good for me? How can I exit a painful relationship and rebuild my self-worth after? 

What are some of the reasons why soft cocks happen (in other words, why do they sometimes have difficulty getting hard)? When it comes to soft cocks, or sex in general, why is it important to expand our definition of sex? What are some of the ways and techniques for both self and partnered sex and pleasure with a soft cock? Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week discusses all this and more. Hurray for soft cocks!

What is a Sex IQ, and how do I know what my sex IQ is? What are the 5 pillars of someone’s sex IQ, and how can people can apply them to have “smarter”, hotter sex? Why is "communication lubrication", "me time we time", and the brain our largest sex organ? Repeat guest, dear friend and Shameless Sex's number one podcast idol Dr. Emily Morse of the Sex With Emily podcast discusses all this and so much more.

What is Urogynecology? Why does pelvic organ prolapse happen, how does this affect sex, and what are some of the options or procedures available? How does hormone optimization fit into this? If I have a hysterectomy will my sex drive be gone forever? What about penis-owner’s sexual health optimization? What can they do and what should they know ASAP? Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille NP answer all this and more.

What are some of the best ways to up my handjob skills? What about blowjobs? How can I conquer the cock with my mouth? How does pleasuring the taint and balls come into the mix? Any differences between hand jobs on circumcised vs uncircumcised cocks? And how can I learn about how my partner likes to be pleasured? 

What is the B of BDSM all about? How can people explore bondage and restraint play in a super hot yet safe, consensual way? Why are people into being tied up, and what does it do for the "doer"? What are some of the tools and props that can be used for bondage and restraint play? And what are some of the top tips for newbies who want to dip their toes into the B of BDSM?

Why are STDs now called STIs? What are the most popular STI’s on the current market? What do I do if I get an STI? How can I manage it? What are the best safer-sex practices available? How can I share my STI status with partners as well s inspire them to be honest with me?

How can people move from anxiety, self-doubt, and fear to a confident, proactive state of mind regarding gender and sexuality? What are the tools for developing and celebrating inherent worth and genuine self-love? How can people design relationships, community, and a sex life that lights them up? And what if I live in the middle of nowhere with what seems like zero open-minded folks to date or connect with? 

Why does having a deeper connection to your pelvic floor lead to better orgasms? Does the same apply to penises and asses? How is squatting and peeing related? What are some of the best positions and tools (sex toys!) for a healthy pelvic floor (aka better orgasms)? Oh, and can a penis really break?

Why is swallowing and deep-throating so popular, and why do a lot of people have an aversion toward engaging in these activities? What is the science behind swallowing and how does it relate to all types of oral sex (on vulvas, penises and all the in-betweens)? What are my options if I have a powerful gag reflex? How can I up my oral sex game including (but not limited to) swallowing and deep-throating? And what if I don't like certain body fluids in my mouth or throat?

Why are a lot vulva owners told that incontinence, dryness, low libido and even painful sex are “just part of life"? What is hormone optimization all about? Can we really work against the aging process by keeping things juicy and supple? What is the latest technology for laser treatments such as the Halo and DiVa all about and how can it lead to healthy glowing skin and genitals?